On Writing and Failure: Or, On the Peculiar Perseverance Required to Endure the Life of a Writer

On Writing and Failure: Or, On the Peculiar Perseverance Required to Endure the Life of a Writer

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  • Author:Stephen Marche
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Summary

Writing is, and always will be, an act defined by failure。 The best plan is to just get used to it。  Failure is a topic discussed in every creative writing department in the world, but this is the book every beginning writer should have on their shelf to prepare them。 Less a guide to writing and more a guide to what you need to continue existing as a writer, On Writing and Failure: Or, On the Peculiar Perseverance Required to Endure the Life of a Writer describes the defining role played by rejection in literary endeavors and contemplates failure as the essence of the writer’s life。 Along with his own history of rejection, Marche offers stories from the history of writerly failure, from Ovid’s exile and Dostoevsky’s mock execution to James Baldwin's advice just to endure, where living with the struggle and the pointlessness of writing is the point。

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Charles Michael Fischer

Maureen Corrigan's NPR review brought me here。 Hilarious and brutal treatise on the necessity of perseverance。 Maureen Corrigan's NPR review brought me here。 Hilarious and brutal treatise on the necessity of perseverance。 。。。more

Terrance Shaw

Back in 2013 I blogged a glowing review of a short story collection by an aspiring author。 The book, while certainly not perfect, showed promise, and I felt it was fair to offer the writer a word or two of encouragement。 Unfortunately, so far from boosting a talented newbie’s career, the review had the effect of turning them into a monster; an insufferable, swell-headed egomaniac。 For years this legend-in-their-own mind has flaunted that tiny scrap of affirmation as if it were the Nobel Prize, t Back in 2013 I blogged a glowing review of a short story collection by an aspiring author。 The book, while certainly not perfect, showed promise, and I felt it was fair to offer the writer a word or two of encouragement。 Unfortunately, so far from boosting a talented newbie’s career, the review had the effect of turning them into a monster; an insufferable, swell-headed egomaniac。 For years this legend-in-their-own mind has flaunted that tiny scrap of affirmation as if it were the Nobel Prize, trotting it out ever so often as if to say “See! This proves I was a great writer once upon a time!” Never mind that that review was written by someone (me) who, by any conventional metric of literary success, must be considered an abject failure—or that that self-anointed “great writer” has written next to nothing ever since。 One is reminded, sadly, of a pathetic has-been (or, in this case, a barely-ever-was) cadging drinks in a dive bar based on a tenuous brush with some minor celebrity decades before。 Well, I’m certainly glad they liked the review, even though they received my plaudits largely on credit all those years ago。 Perhaps I was too hopeful in assuming they had more than one book in them。 (Many don’t。) It’s true that often, in order to persevere in this madhouse of a profession, writers have to find whatever way they can to believe in themselves: The brutal reality of the writing life is that no one will ever care about your work as much as you do—and if you aren’t passionate about your own work, how can you expect anybody else to give a damn? Still, that young writer might have benefited from a reading of Stephen Marche’s short, engaging essay ‘On Writing and Failure or: On the Peculiar Perseverance Required to Endure the Life of a Writer。’ If nothing else, it might have given them a much-needed sense of perspective; encouragement, yes, but encouragement with a healthy does of realism。 The odds are daunting for even the most serious writers today—and a realistic set of expectations at the outset hardly helps。 As Marche point out:“Three-hundred-thousand books are published every year in the United States alone。 A few hundred, at most, could be called financial or creative successes。 The majority of books by successful writers are failures。 The majority of writers are failures。”No one wants to be regarded as a failure—even less, think of themselves as one。 No wonder the absurd lengths writers often go in order to project an image of success: Making virtues of everything from how fast they can churn out a piece of genre fluff, to the number of drab 50,000-word potboilers they’ve had traditionally published (while never reading a word of anyone else’s work), monthly pages read on Kindle Unlimited, or the somewhat dubious distinction of once having broken onto the USA Today or New York Times best-seller lists。 (In fact, it took surprisingly few sales to land on either of those lists, and, as Marche notes, “…the marketplace doesn’t test talent。 It tests timing。”) Others make endless hay out of once having had some pithy remarks retweeted by a famous author, or spend their whole life brooding on what might have been if the respected, now-dead literary figure who once sent them an encouraging postcard would have only followed through and publically championed their cause。 “‘Might have’ is the cry of every artist who has to hustle, who has to reconcile the dreams of art with the realities of shifting marketplaces。 Writers want to be judged by what they could have written。 The world insists on judging them by the reception of what they have written。 Careers are circumstances。 Others treat them as the unfolding of an inner truth。”We dread failure, and yet we cannot escape it。 “Even in the face of massive success,” Marche says, “a little part, maybe a big part, maybe even the biggest part of the writer’s heart, dwells in failure。” And how could it be otherwise when talentless hacks can fake it till they make it, and AI-generated schlock gluts the marketplace, while genuinely gifted flesh-and-blood creatives labor in obscurity, forced to scrimp and shift until they perish in poverty? But even in these much-troubled times of dizzyingly rapid paradigm shifts in literary culture—what Marche astutely refers to as a “period of radical turbulence” —things may be no worse on balance than they ever were。 Consider the case of Herman Melville, “whose fate was like the sick joke of some cruel god。 The better he wrote, the more he failed。” By the end of his life, the now- celebrated author of ‘Moby Dick’ was little more than a wraith on the fringes of literary life, so poor that he could not even self-publish what may have been his true masterpiece, ‘Billy Budd。’ The irony is that far-less gifted authors ended up getting the money and the temporary fame, while Melville, who died in drunken squalor and despair, is spoken of today in tones of reverent awe。 “No amount of success is a protection from the spectre of obscurity,” Marche observes。 “There’s no amulet against oblivion。”Depressing stuff, no? Yet somehow Marche’s many anecdotes of cruel rejection, grinding poverty, brutal political oppression, mental illness, willful dissolution, and gruesome self-slaughter have the effect of making us feel a little better about our own struggles—a little more self-assured about the petty indignities we all have to put up with。 I, personally, take the Stoic’s view, accepting that failure and oblivion are my lot as a writer, in life and in death, and there’s nothing to be done about it other than altering my perceptions—learning to regard the manure life gives me as fertilizer。 What will fame or money mean a century after I’m dead anyway? Yet, I’ll continue to write no matter the frustrations, because writing is how I make meaning in the here and now。No, Marche’s essay is not an exercise in discouragement or despair。 If anything, he lets writers know that they are not alone: Offers a healthy dose of realism to starry-eyed youth, and a knowing pat on the back to those of us who have persevered against all odds into old age。 “The condition of failure (may be) a constant in writerly life; a life” —Marche tells us— that “demands a peculiar persistence。” Yet we continue to strive to write well, “doing so for its own sake, with a vague, not particularly sensible hope that it will somehow resonate。”Enthusiastically recommended! 。。。more

Kira L'Dante

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Samantha

It's very tight and fairly short - a long essay, basically - but also exactly what I needed right now。 If you like to write things, whether you submit them or not, then it's probably what you need too。 I like the phrase "throw yourself against the door。" It's very tight and fairly short - a long essay, basically - but also exactly what I needed right now。 If you like to write things, whether you submit them or not, then it's probably what you need too。 I like the phrase "throw yourself against the door。" 。。。more

R。L。 Maizes

A must-read for young--or old--writers。

Mariana Jimenez

A book on writing that is not self-serving without eschewing the sublime。 Very concise, uplifting, and funny。 Learnt about a bunch of writers whose work I'd love to delve into A book on writing that is not self-serving without eschewing the sublime。 Very concise, uplifting, and funny。 Learnt about a bunch of writers whose work I'd love to delve into 。。。more

David Wineberg

Writing and failure go together like a horse and carriage。 Would-be writers see it as romantic, or life-saving, or at very least remote work。 But ultimately, it is all about failure says Stephen Marche (citing George Orwell) in his book On Writing and Failure。 Marche is a successful (in my mind) writer who plumbs history for examples of incredible suffering, frustration, poverty and rejection that is the life of writers。 It’s a lifetime struggle, even, if not especially, for what readers would c Writing and failure go together like a horse and carriage。 Would-be writers see it as romantic, or life-saving, or at very least remote work。 But ultimately, it is all about failure says Stephen Marche (citing George Orwell) in his book On Writing and Failure。 Marche is a successful (in my mind) writer who plumbs history for examples of incredible suffering, frustration, poverty and rejection that is the life of writers。 It’s a lifetime struggle, even, if not especially, for what readers would consider successful ones。 The book is one long essay that makes for a very short book, but it is packed with real life stories that come with a warning at the end of many of its paragraphs: “Why would it be different for you?”Throughout the eighty pages here, Marche keeps saying “No whining” and “No complaining” because young writers, old writers and would-be writers spend all their time doing just that。 He tells of major successes like F。 Scott Fitzgerald, who considered himself a failure and drank himself to death, complaining all the way。 He even goes back to Socrates and Confucius, whose writings not only didn’t make for successful careers, but demonstrated failure at every turn。First off there is rejection。 Marche has stories, including his own, of collecting rejection letters。 He says he stopped at two thousand of them。 Publishing is a totally irrational business, run by tastemakers with no taste。 One example of rejection not in the book is something I will never forget, and which deterred me from a writing career as a primary pursuit very early on。In the early 1970s, some Harvard students took a copy of Jerzy Kosinski’s 1965 Pulitzer Prize winning novel The Painted Bird, and laboriously retyped the whole thing onto plain paper, double-spaced, using a manual typewriter (as there were no word processors or scanners)。 They made copies and submitted them under their own names as new manuscripts to several dozen publishers。 As I recall, they received about twenty responses back, all of them rejections, including one that attempted to be encouraging by saying the style was reminiscent of Jerzy Kosinski。 Rejection is a way of life for writers。 It hurts and it changes them, and not for the better。 Marche says even when they succeed, they fail。 Immediately following the publication of a story or a book, the writer knows with certainty that a rejection is on its way for the next effort。 For most, it never gets any easier。 Writers need a thick skin, but the skin gets thinner and thinner with experience and age, he says。 The most famous of the famous live with continual rejection。In 2014, I watched a documentary on my favorite cartoonist, Gahan Wilson, possibly the most established cartoonist since Charles Schulz and before Gary Larson。 It showed him getting on a bus in Sag Harbor, Long Island, for the two and a half hour slog into Manhattan, where every Tuesday he had to present twenty new cartoons to the cartoon editor of The New Yorker, in the hopes they might publish one of them。 They often didn’t。 Then it was back on the bus to dwell on his rejections for the long ride home。 And this was eighty year-old Gahan Wilson。 It has stuck with me for the wrong reason。 Every week, for decades, there were twenty Gahan Wilson cartoons that I (we) never got to see。 All that creativity, all that humor, all that effort, never saw publication。 A lifetime of it。 After the rejection and before the bus, he would get together with all the other New Yorker cartoonists who had come in for rejection day, and they had lunch at an Italian restaurant in midtown near The New Yorker offices。 Everyone was in the same boat – maybe getting one cartoon accepted if the stars were aligned that day。 It confirmed my decision of not following the fulltime creative path。 Which is no easy feat when you are a creative person。 Very frustrating。 This book has the same effect, and the whole book is dedicated to it。 That it is well written and a very smooth and fast read is beside the point。 As I would have said fifty years ago, buzzkill。The message is to write if you must, with must being the key word and requirement。 Marche has plenty of stories of writers who simply had to write, including one in Russia who could not put anything on paper, and got friends in the same prison to memorize lines for her that could be written down at some future date in some other universe。As for fame, consider that the best writers of every era have been completely forgotten。 Research projects always reveal wonderful work by people the researcher had never heard of, but who were mega-stars in their time。 They get cited in papers or books (epigraphs are a favorite spot), but no one actually reads them any more。 Writing the great American novel will not confer immortality。 It probably won’t even pay the rent。I spent years collecting first editions of the best humorists of the Roaring Twenties。 They were legendary in their time: Robert Benchley, Dorothy Parker, SJ Perelman, James Thurber。。。 I paid as much as $40 for a used book。 Today, if you even know who to search for (and few do), all those works are readily available online for a couple of bucks — and no takers。 But I digress。At the industry level, Marche says about 300,000 books are published in America every year, and at most a few hundred could be classified as commercial or even creative successes。 It follows that even new works by established authors are failures, he says。He doesn’t stop at rejection。 There’s writers’ block to consider。 This is the period where despite or because of a looming deadline, the writer can’t think of what to type。 Marche dismisses it with a little perspective: “It used to be called ‘not having anything to say。’” Marche is not sharing a table at the pity party。He says writing itself is failure, that readers take it where the author never intended it to be。 That there are several hundred thousand kind of jobs that pay better。 That several famous writers never wrote another thing after they had a bestselling hit。 “Success” totally changed them。The stats are even more discouraging, as writers prove to succumb to mental health diseases more than the general public。 There’s lots of suicide too, by people (eg。 Kosinski, Hemingway, Vonnegut, and Dorothy Parker – several times) that most would consider total literary successes。 Depression and substance abuse are on public display far too often in the writing fraternity。 Marche says he knows of many cases himself, and finds “zero romance” in them at all。 It is so crazy that he can cite one writer who left a suicide note for his wife: “I’m not dying because I hate you – it’s because I’ve come to hate writing。” That’s a terrific description of the writing obsession。The problems mutate as writers rack up successes。 In Marche’s own case:“I have no idea whether I’m successful or not。 That’s the honest truth。 There would be those who would find it ridiculous of me to consider myself a failure。 I make a living from writing, and don’t even have to teach。 I receive fan mail almost every day。 Because of some ads for an audio series I made, I am regularly recognized in the street。 Others would consider the idea that I might consider myself a successful writer equally ridiculous。 I’ve barely been published internationally。 I only earned out a couple of books (ie。 made more than the advance)。 I alienated myself out of the literary community of my own country (Canada) as quickly as possible。 I am unprizeable。 By no means can I just do what I like。 I only work on what I believe in but that’s a way of describing my own pride rather than any external achievement […] As I’ve proceeded deeper into the writer’s life, I understand less and less what success looks like。”And why would it be any different for you?David WinebergtIf you liked this review, I invite you to read more in my book The Straight Dope。 It’s an essay collection based on my first thousand reviews and what I learned。 Right now it’s FREE for Prime members, otherwise — cheap! Reputed to be fascinating and a superfast read。 And you already know it is well-written。 https://www。amazon。com/Straight-Dope-。。。 。。。more